Let me begin this by saying I am no relationship expert. Not by a long shot. I have been in a couple terrible relationships and one or two good ones that have taught me what I do and don’t want and that’s all I know. No judgment here if you are not into marriage, this is solely my opinion about this experience.   I just got married about 2 months ago and began the process of combining our lives. We have lived together for 3 years before we got married, but now I’ve changed my name to .